Inviting friends to be in your bridal party is exciting and sometimes tricky. Which friends do you want? How many? Are some friends expecting to be asked? Who is totally X’d? Should you have your fiancé’s cousin? Question after question after question.

Here are three rules to asking the right people:

Don’t ask someone just because you were in their wedding. Just because you were in theirs doesn’t mean they have to be in yours. If your goal is to have no more than five bridesmaids and the slots are taken up by sisters, cousins or lifelong pals, don’t sweat it. She’ll still be invited. She just won’t be standing up there with you. NO biggie.

Do ask the people who make you feel good. If you have a Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy in your group of friends, do you really want them to take part in your special day and all the festivities? Pick people who cheer you up and who you value the most as friends. Come bachelorette party and bridal shower, you’ll be happy you went with the fun and nice ones.

Don’t pay attention to bridal party “norms”. Each side of the bridal party usually consists of between two and six people. By all means, if you’re lucky enough to have more friends than that and want to invite them all to be in your wedding, do so. I was just in a wedding with 11 bridesmaids. Let me tell you, because there were so many of us girls, we pulled off a fantastic (and cheaper) bridal shower and bachelorette party. And the reception was ten times more fun with all of us starting the dance party!

Really, there are no rules for how to pick your bridal party. It’s your wedding and you ask who you want, even if your Aunt May suggests inviting all thirteen of your female cousins to be in your ceremony. It’s your decision – not anyone else’s

- Stephanie

After spending weeks, months, or even years planning your wedding, the day is finally over and the honeymoon is on the horizon! But if you’re like most brides who have been consumed with final dress fittings and confirmation phone calls, selecting your honeymoon wardrobe hasn’t exactly been a top priority.

Whether the two of you plan on sunbathing on the beaches of Cabo San Lucas or navigating your way through Europe, your clothing selections should be weather-appropriate, fuss free and comfortable. Your new hubby will hate nothing more than seeing and hearing you complain about your pack job.

The honeymoon is the start of your lives together, so why not look fabulous in the gazillion pictures you’ll be taking together! You’ll be happy you put some thought into that ruffled bathing suit or flowered mini sundress. Here are some of my destination-influenced picks.

Hanging Loose in Hawaii:

Hawaii Dress – An exotic dress to dine in

Hawaii Bathing Suit- A girly way to tan on the tropical island

A Mexican Fiesta:

Mexico Blouse – Vibrant colors make this a perfect daytime look

Mexico Sandals – Easy to dance and walk in, these sandals just scream “Mexico!”

Backpacking Europe:

Europe Everyday Dress – An everyday dress when you’re on the move

Europe Flats – Comfortable and cute flats to walk the town in

Cruising the Caribbean:

Caribbean Romper – A perfect romper for the windy deck

Caribbean Bathing Suit – A classy way to sunbathe

All cloths curtosy of Anthropologie

Everyone knows lingerie is a big part of the honeymoon. Everyone also knows there’s a fine line between classy and not so classy negliges.

Whether you want a feisty or sophisticated collection for the steamy nights ahead, make sure you A. feel sexy in what you’re wearing and B. your choices are a reflection of you. If you usually have more of an edge to you, your new hubby will be a little taken aback if you show up with pink frills and lace.

Here are some tasteful ways to be naughty and nice.

COLORS FOR THE BIG DAY – Pink and Charcoal Grey

Choosing a color scheme is one of the first steps in planning a wedding. Whether you’re designing a fun and vibrant day or a feminine and sophisticated event, the color palette truly sets the tone. From the invitations to the bridesmaids dresses, the colors are carried out in pretty much every aspect of the wedding.

A favorite of mine is pink and charcoal grey. Romantic, elegant and absolutely lovely.